In an exclusive conversation, renowned astrologer, healer, and tarot card reader Rinhee Suberwal reflects on how love, marriage, and emotional alignment shape her life and work. It’s wiser to nurture the relationship you are in and accept each other wholly.”For many couples with demanding careers, carving out time becomes one of the biggest challenges. Suberwaltine’s Day.
Speaking about how the day has changed for her after marriage, she says: “We have both accepted each other exactly as we are, which is the foundation of any relationship. Regardless of the good, the bad, the positive, or the negative traits your partner may have, the relationship only lasts if you accept each other as you are. No one is perfect. He could find someone better than me, and I could find someone better than him, but that search for ‘better’ never ends. It’s wiser to nurture the relationship you are in and accept each other wholly.”
For many couples with demanding careers, carving out time becomes one of the biggest challenges. Suberwal and her husband face the same struggle but choose to stay intentional.
On finding time amidst hectic schedules, she explains: “We prioritize spending quality time together. Finding a large quantity of time is always difficult because we are both equally busy. We need rest, but we also need each other. I always advise couples to bond on weekends or go on date nights; these things are essential to keep the spark alive.”
Even in the smallest moments, love continues to show up. For Suberwal, one everyday gesture from her husband still melts her heart.She smiles as she shares: “Do you know how I can tell if Pramod is in a good mood? Whenever he’s feeling good, he makes tea for me—and he makes excellent tea. That’s his way of showing love. Honestly, just his presence matters. If he doesn’t like someone, he won’t be there—he’s that straightforward. He may not do grand gestures, but he excels at taking care of me and being loyal.”
Marriage, she says, has also shaped her perspective on relationships, both personally and professionally.Reflecting on its deeper meaning, she adds: “In marriage, you really need to work on your relationships. The other person will never make it work for you—you have to make it work for yourself. It’s not about completing each other; it’s about being complete individuals who meet in the middle. Life comes with shades of black, white, and gray, and we need to accept all of it with grace.”
Support, she emphasizes, forms the backbone of any partnership—something that directly impacts emotional health and even professional performance.
As she concludes: “Like any relationship, marriage is a lot of work, and the one who doesn’t put in the effort loses out. Supporting your partner is a must. If partners don’t support each other, their work performance naturally suffers.”
